Do you thing have a online relationship is wrong !

[lawyergirl]

I have two wonderful guys am having this internet relationship with....mind you I never meet niether of them in person.....or tonch. It a real relationship and mentally.......all safe and not any problem to my marraige. they both know am married. I been totally honest with both of them from the begainning. We have a little cybr-sex it harmless,,,,,,,and again very safe ...Do thing am wrong.....this don't hurt my relationshipship with my hubsand what do you think.......

[Jalapeno]

This is the rule I live by......if I couldn't tell my husband about it, it's wrong!!!!!

No matter how you justify it to yourself, if you can't tell your husband about it then something's not right!

How would you feel if your husband was doing the exact samething behind YOUR back.....I think you'd be pretty mad!

[cumulus]

I been totally honest with both of them from the begainning. We have a little cybr-sex it harmless,,,,,,,and again very safe ...Do thing am wrong.....this don't hurt my relationshipship with my hubsand what do you think.......

* So you've been honest with them and NOT your husband? Red Flag.

* Yes, I think it's wrong to be emotionally involved with TWO other people, especially when married. Emotionally cheating on someone is steal cheating IMO.

* Cyber-Sex is not harmless. Ask your husband how he feels about it.

* This WILL hurt your relationship with your husband.

[semmens]

For a "lawyergirl" you certainly don't write very carefully. I noticed this on your other posts too; maybe it's time to try spellcheck?

BTW-Of course it's wrong!

[zoey55]

Lawyergirl,

SERIOUSLY you ask us this question ?!? It is wrong, wrong, wrong. It is a clear sign something is missing from your marriage. It is also sneaky. NO GOOD. Would you mind if your husband was up to the same thing? If you would not, perhaps I miss the boat on the "openness" of your marriage. However, my $.02 is it is harmful and hurtful.

[honeygirl1971]

For a "lawyergirl" you certainly don't write very carefully. I noticed this on your other posts too; maybe it's time to try spellcheck?



This comment has been made before. I think lawyergirl is not a native speaker.

On the topic at hand, I think Jalapeno had a good way of looking at it. If you can't tell your husband about it, it is wrong. I can imagine that there must be people who are in relationships where this sort of thing IS okay, but that's because they are both open about it and both okay with it. For me personally, it is definitely wrong, but you are the one who needs to make the decision about what's okay in your own marriage. But, if you wouldn't want your husband to do it, and you don't want him to know about it, then to me that gives you your answer right there--in your marriage, it's wrong.

[Chefzhat]

Let's not forget her two children - wonder what they'd think of the situation.

:mad: :mad:

Half the time I can't figure out if this chick is some whacked troll or a real person.

[KristiB]

Let's not forget her two children - wonder what they'd think of the situation.

:mad: :mad:

Half the time I can't figure out if this chick is some whacked troll or a real person.

Agreed and I wonder too.

[PAMMELA]

Very strange post.

[testkitchen45]

What they all said.

:confused: :confused: :confused:

And if you have to ask, you already know it's wrong, don't you?

[SandyM]

Do thing am wrong.....this don't hurt my relationshipship with my hubsand what do you think.......
I just want to know - are you really a lawyer, or do you just portray one on the BB? Because seriously, this is a stupid question.

There is something incredibly wrong with your marriage if you are seeking out (or otherwise engaging in) companionship and cyber-sex on the computer. Unless, of course, your husband is involved (which I suspect, in this case, he is not).

[jmarie]

Is cyber-sex really that much fun when you have a hot-blooded man there with you? I can't even imagine that would be more fun than the real thing...:confused:

My point of view is that it is WRONG ...WRONG....WRONG....AndI can't believe that any woman who truly loves her husband would consider doing this, much less with more than one man. And it is strange that they know the truth about you but your husband doesn't. Poor thing. :(

[KristiB]

I just want to know - are you really a lawyer, or do you just portray one on the BB?


Her post history is interesting. Read and draw your own conclusions :rolleyes:

[semmens]

Her post history is interesting. Read and draw your own conclusions

Agreed. I found the one about "looking for a lost love" especially interesting in light of this one.

Exactly how "happily married" are you really, lawyergirl?

[GingerPow]

I just want to know - are you really a lawyer, or do you just portray one on the BB?
This is an appropriate user name for someone who will be needing a lawyer when her husband finds out. ;)

[ErinM]

OK, I'm just going to go ahead and post the first thing that popped into my head when I saw this thread late last night. I didn't think it would be the greatest first response to the issue, but feel OK about adding it here now.

Ahem.

Are you OUT of your ever loving MIND??? Yes, it's wrong!

[DmOrtega]

... We have a little cybr-sex it harmless,,,,,,,and again very safe ...Do thing am wrong.....this don't hurt my relationshipship with my hubsand what do you think.......

If you are asking this question then you are not reconcilled with it yourself. You know that it is wrong. It's the kind of behavior that negates your marraige and gives reasonable grounds for divorce. Ask you husband what he thinks.

[Robyncz]

Ask you husband what he thinks.

Conversely, ask yourself what you would think if you found out your husband was having "harmless" cybersex with a couple of "wonderful" girls he met on the internet. . .

[Grace]

I have to wonder if these questions are even real. She seems to like to ask things that she knows are always controversial, and I think it's just to stir up the pot and get negative responses so she can come back and tell us how mean we all are. It's a pattern.

I think if we all refused to respond to her posts at all she would go away. I would never say that about anyone if I thought they were genuine. But this person does not come across to me as even one bit genuine. It seems all a ruse from a bored person. I could be wrong, but I don't think so.

[Gumbeaux]

I have two wonderful guys am having this internet relationship with

The first thing you need to consider is that there is no way you can know for certain that these "guys" are, in fact, male and are above the age of 18 unless you have already met them.

You are probably "chatting" with a couple of teenagers having fun.

[zwieback]

The first thing you need to consider is that there is no way you can know for certain that these "guys" are, in fact, male and are above the age of 18 unless you have already met them.

You are probably "chatting" with a couple of teenagers having fun.

That's what I thought, too. Sounds like another episode of Dateline To Catch a Predator waiting to happen.

[ErinM]

I have to wonder if these questions are even real. She seems to like to ask things that she knows are always controversial, and I think it's just to stir up the pot and get negative responses so she can come back and tell us how mean we all are. It's a pattern.

I think if we all refused to respond to her posts at all she would go away. I would never say that about anyone if I thought they were genuine. But this person does not come across to me as even one bit genuine. It seems all a ruse from a bored person. I could be wrong, but I don't think so.


I agree with Grace. Although, now, I can't wait for her to come back and see what she writes. All for my entertainment, y'know. ;) :D

[VALERIEA234]

Please Wake Up, Before It Is To Late......and Someone Strange Is Knocking On Your Door!!!
V.

[hollysmom]

Do you think someone could REALLY write that bad and be faking it?

SSM

[Kristilyn1]

Am I the only one who is trying to picture the cyber sex? I mean, if I had to try to decipher the meaning of the words and try to put them in some sort of logical context----I think it might take a little of the fun out of it....:eek:

c'mon. really.

Kristi

[SusanMac]

I'm with you Grace!

[Robyncz]

Am I the only one who is trying to picture the cyber sex? I mean, if I had to try to decipher the meaning of the words and try to put them in some sort of logical context----I think it might take a little of the fun out of it....:eek:

c'mon. really.

Kristi

Nope, you're not the only one.

[saserre]

It's interesting. Looking back at previous threads, half the time in the past Lawyergirl writes clearly and well written, and sometimes it's these choppy sentences with bad grammar/spelling.

She's tried to start a supper club or meet folks three times now. Makes me wonder if it's a real person or someone having fun with all of us? And if it is a real person, what the heck is she on that her language/style and everything else changes from time to time? Is one of her kids getting onto her account?

[honeygirl1971]

I don't know about that, saserre. IMO all her posts have a mixture of typos (that anyone could make) and grammar mistakes (esp with articles and subject-verb agreement) that make me think she is not a native speaker. And, there's a certain amount of consistency in the type of thing she posts. But, if it is a troll or someone pretending to be someone they are not, I am sure he/she is getting a huge laugh out of all the responses here!

[NancyR]

Half the time I can't figure out if this chick is some whacked troll or a real person.

whacked troll, definitely...or else some dufus yanking our chain