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Robyn1007
12-21-2007, 11:57 AM
My very kind boss just sent us this story, along with news that he is closing the office on New Year's Eve (I was taking a vacation day but now my vacation time won't be charged!). Have I mentioned lately how fortunate I feel to have found this job with this company?


TWO GLASSES OF WINE

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 glasses of wine...
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."

The professor then produced two glasses of wine from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.

The golf balls are the important things; your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions; things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full."

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car.

The sand is everything else; the small stuff."

"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you."

"Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18. Do one more run down the ski slope. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first; the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the wine represented.
The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of glasses of wine with a friend."

wallycat
12-21-2007, 12:14 PM
I have heard this one before and love it!
Thank you for bringing it up again as I sometimes only remember the sand.

little_bopeep
12-21-2007, 12:21 PM
I'm such a pessimist...I thought (at first) that you meant he was closing the office forever on NYE and that "kind" was anything but. :rolleyes: But then I read the whole thing and felt like a doof. :D

snoop1967
12-21-2007, 12:29 PM
I've heard this one as well. I try to live life that way. But you would NOT believe the people I've worked with and/or met who think that philosophy is nuts. How sad to be them in twenty years when they havn't a friend in the world, kids that are cool and distant and are too old to do all they ever dreamed of.:(

tamawrite
12-21-2007, 01:14 PM
Thanks for the reminder, Robyn. Life has been a bit stressful lately in the "sand" department, so this was timely. Merry Christmas. :)

BucknellAlum
12-21-2007, 02:33 PM
I have heard a similar story, with rocks and sand, and it is amazing how many times I have to remind myself of that concept. . .to take care of the important things first.

Thank you for sharing - I sent this to a bunch of my friends today!

GingerPow
12-21-2007, 02:44 PM
Priceless! I love it! I'm printing that out and putting it on DH's desk. What a wonderful person you work for.

Kay Henderson
12-21-2007, 06:50 PM
Thank you for reminding us of this classic. I have seen it acted out and it is a very powerful reminder to not let the unimportant crowd out the important in our lives.

Kay

Romandub
12-22-2007, 05:17 AM
What a wonderful reminder of how we should be living our lives. Robynn--thanks so much for posting!

Autumn
12-22-2007, 05:38 AM
Thank you Robyn. This message is exactly what I needed today.

tidee
12-22-2007, 06:32 AM
thank you! that was a nice pick-me-up.

TieKitty
12-22-2007, 07:09 AM
Robyn....I've heard that story before but I thank you for sharing it again. It's a beautiful thought and yes, you are fortunate to be working with someone like that.:)

Valerie226
12-22-2007, 08:25 AM
Thank you... I have this posted on my bulletin board with 2 cups of coffee rather than 2 glasses of wine. your version is better!