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SusanT
07-31-2001, 10:47 AM
I found the below on Yahoo health news and thought it may be of interest to those trying or about to try having a child.

Tuesday July 31 11:26 AM EDT
What to Consider Before Conceiving
By Alan Copperman, MD, Mt. Sinai School of Medicine
Healthology, Special to ABCNEWS.com
Before you start trying to conceive there are a few steps you should take. Here's a list of what to do and what not to do before you try to conceive.


As an OB/GYN, I help a lot of couples get ready for the big event of pregnancy and parenthood. If you are thinking about having a child, there are a number of preparations you can make to be both physically and emotionally ready for conception. This article lists the routine questions I ask my patients and the tests that I recommend for them, and offers some background information for that first visit to the OB/GYN.

The doctor visit

Your first preconception visit to the doctor should include a full physical examination, including a pap smear and cervical cultures, as well as blood tests. These blood tests will test you for anemia, and your immunity to rubella and chicken pox. If you are not immune to one or both of these viral infections, you may need to be vaccinated. In this case, it is best to wait three months before trying to conceive.

Genetic disorders

You and your partner should also undergo genetic counseling and testing prior to becoming pregnant. Based on each partner's family history, targeted tests can be performed to find out whether a couple is at risk for having a child with certain diseases. Some examples include Tay Sach's disease, most commonly seen in those of Ashkenazi Jewish descent, sickle cell anemia, most common in African Americans, and cystic fibrosis, which is most common in Caucasians. If both husband and wife are carriers of a certain disease, there is a technique available to prevent passing on any disease to the child. The technique requires, however, that a couple go through in vitro fertilization, often a very expensive procedure. If you and your partner are both carriers of a genetic disease, it is best to discuss your pregnancy options with a genetic counselor.

Sexually transmitted diseases

Sexually transmitted diseases (STD's) can also have an effect on a woman's fertility. Your doctor should discuss your medical history with you, and maydecide to perform cervical cultures or blood tests to make sure that there are no infections that would hinder your ability to conceive. STD's, like chlamydia, gonorrhea and genital herpes, can effect your ability to conceive by causing scarring of the fallopian tubes. Mycoplasma (a type of bacteria) has been identified as an agent that may be capable of preventing couples from getting pregnant as well. If any of the tests are positive, antibiotics can be prescribed to kill the bacteria in both partners. It is usually recommended that a couple abstain from intercourse until the infection is completely cured.

Prenatal vitamins and good diet

In addition to visiting your doctor, another important step a woman should take before trying to conceive is to begin taking prenatal vitamins that provide between 400 and 800 micrograms of folic acid. Most prenatal vitamins contain at least this much. Studies have shown that taking prenatal vitamins, especially those with at least 400 micrograms of folic acid, can reduce the chance of having a baby with brain and spinal cord malformations called neural tube defects.

The prenatal vitamins should, of course, be supplemented with a well-balanced diet. If you are anemic, vegetarian, or eat very lightly, you may need to change your eating habits as you are trying to conceive. Not having enough nutrients in your body can cause many problems as your baby develops. A woman who is anemic, for instance, may not have enough iron stores for normal red blood cell production in the fetus. Most importantly, deficient caloric intake can lead to growth retardation and a smaller fetus.

Good fitness

Along with eating well and taking prenatal vitamins, being physically fit is also a plus during the pre-pregnant and pregnant stages. Studies have shown that good fitness during conception and pregnancy make for a much easier labor and delivery. Maintaining a body weight of no more than fifteen percent above or below ideal body weight will provide an optimal environment for the fetal growth period. If a woman is less than fifteen percent below ideal body weight, she is not just slight, she is skinny. In fact, many women this underweight won't ovulate normally, and this may make it hard to conceive. Finally, in the first trimester, many women have such extreme nausea and vomiting that they lose a significant amount of weight. For these reasons, I always encourage women to optimize their health before conceiving.

I recommend that women who exercise prior to becoming pregnant continue to exercise throughout much of pregnancy, however, some modifications may be necessary. Talk with your doctor once you become pregnant, and determine together the level of exercise that you both feel is safe. These guidelines should be applied to the time just prior to conception as well, as the fetus is nearly two to three weeks old before most women even know that they are pregnant.

Adequate nutrition and hydration must be maintained, and overheating avoided. The core body temperature, and thus the uterine temperature, can exceed 102° during "spinning" or other vigorous exercise in a hot, crowded gym. Attempts to lose weight should occur before, not during pregnancy.

Controlling habits and environment during pregnancy

It is also important for a couple to evaluate their daily surroundings and habits as they are trying to get pregnant.

Controlling your environmental exposure

Asbestos, lead, and radiation exposures should be avoided. If you have a cat, speak with your doctor about taking blood tests to see if you have antibodies to toxoplasma (a parasite that can cause birth defects). If you do not have antibodies, you should use gloves and a mask to change litter boxes during pregnancy.

Controlling your habits

If you drink alcohol, smoke cigarettes or use illegal drugs, these habits need to be modified, preferably stopped, once you begin trying to conceive. They all can have terrible, lasting effects on your baby as its organs are developing, even before you know for sure if you are pregnant. For your own health as well as your future children, quitting, or at least cutting down on these habits, will help everyone. Your doctor can give you information about support groups, treatment centers and other sources of help.

What is the best time to conceive?

If you are a woman and have a twenty-eight day menstrual cycle, you should start having intercourse at least five days before you expect to ovulate. This is usually about nine days after you begin your period. You should continue to have sex at least every other day until day nineteen.

There does not appear to be any advantageous sexual position, but it is best for ejaculation to occur deep within the ******. There also does not appear to be any benefit to bed rest following intercourse, as most sperm swim up the reproductive tract rather quickly.

Many people believe that stress affects a couple's ability to conceive. This is a myth. It is important, however, to keep the romance alive in your marriage, and to try not to let the process of trying to get pregnant create friction or stress. Trying to conceive should be enjoyable for both partners.

Conclusion

Remember, be patient when you are trying to get pregnant. Many patients tell me they want to get pregnant in a certain month so they can deliver at a time that fits in their schedule. One of the couples I visited with wanted to conceive on a certain day so that they could deliver before the end of the year and sneak in another tax deduction. The reality is that getting pregnant can sometimes take six months to a year because the chance of conception each month is only one in five or six. If success does not come within six months to a year of trying, it is reasonable for the couple to talk with their physician to find out whether any tests or treatments are indicated

Finally, getting pregnant is just the beginning of the wonderful experience of being a parent and raising a child. As the father of two-year-old twin boys, with another baby on the way, I highly recommend it.

KValley
07-31-2001, 12:31 PM
Thanks so much for this, SusanT! DH and I hope to begin trying to conceive in the coming year. Much of what was written we knew and are working on, but there were several things I hadn't seriously considered, such as genetic testing. DH hasn't had contact with his birth father since he was a toddler and I think we both need to remember that he is actually adopted on one side of the parental equation.

Good stuff here, I appreciate it!

I have just read about a book called "The Fourth Trimester" that has just been published (I'm sorry, I forget the author), that takes a funny, but honest, calming, reassuring look at what really happens physically and emotionally to mom, baby and marriage after everyone returns from the hospital- those critical first months as you all get used to each other.

Keep 'em coming, guys- I'm starting a library!

Julie

BeckyM
07-31-2001, 02:06 PM
I must repeat Julie's words of thanks! This was an interesting article. It is reassuring to know that I am already doing most of the things the article suggests.

I do have some questions about exercise though. I've heard in addition to not overheating, you're also not supposed to get your heart rate above a certain number. Would that also be true when you're trying to conceive or first pregnant (and may not know it yet)? And does anyone know how to figure out that heart rate? My doctor orignally gave me a number, but my resting heart rate is naturally low (~60 beats/minute), so I asked him if my max heart rate while preganant would also be lower. He told me there's a formula to figure it out, but that he'd help me do that once we know I'm pregnant. Since I'm trying right now, and I'm continuing to exercise, I'm wondering if I should be watching my heart rate already and how high is too high. Does anyone know? I do have a doctor's appointment in August for my regular annual exam, so I can ask my doctor then, but advice in the meantime would be helpful. Thanks!

Becky

mightyh
07-31-2001, 03:09 PM
Hi Becky - I think the heart rate target you're thinking of is 140. BUT, I'm pretty sure I read somewhere recently (maybe Runners World) that that is an old number and if you are fit you can go a little above that, as your body is more used to exercise and cooling itself off.

Also, I'm pretty sure that it's only pertinent once you're pregnant. But, once you start trying, how would you know exactly WHEN you're pregnant. Probably better safe than sorry.

BeckyM
08-01-2001, 08:42 AM
Thanks mightyh for the info. I guess I'd better get a heart rate monitor so I can be sure. I usually don't pay attention to my heart rate, so this will be quite an adjustment for me. Hopefully this won't require me to modify my workouts too much. I guess I'll just watch my heartrate when I think there's a possibility I could be pregnant, and when I'm sure I'm not, I won't worry about it.

LGBurns
08-01-2001, 09:29 AM
Thanks so much! Although trying to conceive is still a couple years off at least for me, I am printing this out and saving it for when the time comes. It was so thoughtful of you to post this! Thanks, again.

SusanT
08-01-2001, 09:53 AM
If you're worried about your body temp going too high, swimming is a great alternative to running or other aerobic exercise. The water will keep your body temp moderated and the water will take the strain off of your joints.

A friend who's an avid runner switched to swimming late in her pregnancy because she was developing problems with her hip ligaments.

Another friend did the swim relay of a triathlon when she was seven months pregnant.

I'm glad everyone found this article useful. I thought it was pretty comprehensive.

For those of you "in training" to become pregnant, heed especially his advice about being underweight. Also in late pregnancy, your body uses it's fat stores to help the baby grow.

LIsaP
08-01-2001, 10:39 AM
I too amd trying to concieve-and have been since Sept of 2000! I am nearing the year point and getting a bit nervous.

Lately, I am really paying attention to how much fat I consume and trying to increase the amount. I think that may have something to do with it. Normally, I consume around 10-15% of calories from fat, which is well under the recommended 30%.

Thanks for this info and good luck to everybody who is trying!

JillC
08-01-2001, 02:04 PM
Susan,
I also thank you for posting such great info. I worked in OB for several years and am just appalled at all of the misinformation and incomplete information out there. This article is comprehensive and thoughtfully written. Kudos to Dr. Copperman for writing it and kudos to you for passing it on!
And just a note--
All women who are capable of becoming pregnant should be taking 400 mcg of folic acid every day. Not only does folic acid help prevent the birth defect Dr. Copperman mentioned, but studies are showing that it helps prevent other birth defects and it decreases the risk for heart disease, stroke and certain kinds of cancer. It's truly a wonder-vitamin!
Remember--more than half of all pregnancies are unplanned. It
can happen to you. Take your folic acid every day.
Getting off my soapbox now. :)
Jill

Angel
08-05-2001, 06:45 PM
Susan,
Thank you for the great article. I have an appointment in September to talk to my doctor about having a baby and your information has really given me alot to ask him.
I have gone off birth control and I am taking a prenatal vitamin.
We are hoping that after my appointment in September we'll get the "Green light" to try to concieve.

Thank you again!

If anyone has any suggestions for good books to read if you could please let me know. I have purchased "What to expect when your expecting". Interesting, I realize now I really don't have a clue when it comes to being pregnant :)