Atten: Mrs. Reber

[Kathy]

Hi There! I was thinking about you last night when I made my girls pizza! It was just plain old cheese but they loved it! I will have to get a little more exotic (or "erotic" as my grandmother says!) Any suggestions? Hi to Holly and the other locals too!

[Kathy]

Congratulations!!! I am so happy for you!I did not see your other posts!It is not a bad thing to lay off pizza for a while! I was living in New York when I was pregnant with my son; my favorite pizzeria always gave me a small piece "for the baby" while I was waiting for an order. I really enjoyed every pound with him!!!With my daughters I craved spinach salads and orange juice. Now that would be an interesting post...pregnancy induced food cravings! How are you feeling? When are you due? I am really jealous! I want another one, too!(Unfortunately, I wouldn't be able to get my husband drunk enough to say Yes!!! http://www.cookinglight.com/bbs/wink.gif

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[MrsReber]

I am due on May 25th, so they say. It's really neat. Aside from the obvious symptoms, though, I dont FEEL pregnant. I have three more weeks to go until the end of the first trimester. They say I'll get my energy back then. I hope so! I only went to the gym twice in October. Way too tired to even think about it. Some days I want to eat everything and other days, I can't even stand the thought of food. My poor husband asked what was for lunch on Saturday. I told him I was having Tums. And I did. I feel like I'm gaining too much weight- 7 pounds so far and my clothes just started to get very uncomfortable last weekend. I go to the doctor for my second visit next Friday (the 10th) I took a personal day from work for that so after the doctor, I am going to get a massage! We haven't told our families yet, but my husband has told just about everyone else he knows! I told him to stop that, it was too soon, but he is so proud. Too much! We want at least two and we've talked about having more than two. He's already asking me not to hog the baby and take it everywhere with me. I told him I wish I could give him the baby and the upset stomach for a day or two! Yes, I've been getting the "eating for two" speeches. Yeah, okay, let's see, there's me and a baby who is 2 inches big. I don't think the baby is eating that much! One of my husband's friends kept trying to feed me at his Halloween party! I kept telling him if he forces me to eat food, I will be running into his bathroom all night. He didn't get it, but at least his wife understood. I will keep you posted. My other messages were on the Healthy Living BB. It seems that I am not the only pregnant Susan on this board!!

[MrsReber]

Hey Kathy! Don't know if you saw my posts on the other board, but I am now about 10 (going on 11) weeks pregnant. Unfortunately, this unborn child does not want me to make pizza or eat pasta. I have been eating more meat lately and anything else that agrees with me. Saturday it was pbj sandwiches. It seems to be subsiding a bit so I am hoping to be able to make pizza soon. My poor husband. I can hardly plan dinner lately.

Holly has been having trouble accessing the BB from work so she hasn't been on here too much lately, but I will say "hi" to her!

As for your pizza, my favorite is just thinly sliced onions and peppers. My husband likes marinated artichokes, too. And don't forget lots of fresh basil on top!

Just spoke to Holly- she said to please say "hello" to you for her!

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[Kathy]

I am sorry it took me so long to respond..I attempted twice but was pulled away by my 2 year old! A good friend of mine is due around the same time you are. My OB has an office in your area..I love him! Where are you delivering? Don't worry, the exhaustion will pass; unforfunately, "Mommy brain" distractability, takes a bit longer..I am still waiting! Don't worry about the weight...it is probably just initial fluid. I would not trade any of my pregnancy related pounds for my kids for even one second. You will see! And you will make a great Mom!

[MrsReber]

My doctor is in Brick and they will only go to Brick hospital. There's 4 doctors in the office and they will have me see all of them before the baby is due since whoever is on call will be there to deliver on that day. I am going to make a pizza tonight. We went out to eat last night (the fourth anniversary of the day we met) and I didn't think I'd be able to eat much since I was feeling sick all afternoon. I did just fine, though.

I am sure we'll love being parents. My husband is so much more excited than I thought he would be. We've been keeping it secret from our families. It's kind of fun having the secret, but it won't last long. I feel like I'm going to be showing very soon. My clothes are getting uncomfortable. It seems too early to be showing, though. This is the start of my 11th week! It should be about 4 or 5 more weeks before I show, no?? I don't know how to tell my boss or my co-workers. I am going to try to go to the gym tonight. I need to get some sort of exercise. I would've gone Wednesday night, but I was STARVING when I got home. The hunger hits me very hard and very suddenly. Then some days, I can't even think about eating at all. Very weird.

Can't talk the husband into another baby, huh? Holly would like to have kids, but her husband is unsure about the whole thing. Hey, there never is a "right time". My husband gave me that line for a while and I told him I'm not getting any younger and the older you get, especially over 35, the more risk of Down's syndrome and other birth defects. So he relented and now he is very happy. Moved all his hunting stuff out of his office room and is getting ready to spackle and paint. What a guy.

[Wendy w]

Excuse me for "butting in, but I would like to say congratulations Mrs. R! I know that you have been trying for a long time! It will be fun for you when you tell your families -it must be hard keeping the secret, but a necessity so that you can get through the 1st trimester.

I will be a Great Aunt for the 2nd time in January and my sister will be a 1st time Grandma. She is elated! This will be cool because my other (Great? http://www.cookinglight.com/bbs/confused.gif Grand?) nephew is in Michigan and my nephew and his wife are local.

I would also like to congratulate you on getting Mr. R to move his hunting stuff out of the spare room. A few years ago, a friend of mine made her husband get rid of his collection of lizards, snakes and other reptiles before they brought the baby home so I understand his "sacrifice"! http://www.cookinglight.com/bbs/wink.gif As you once said, God created men for our amusement!

Wendy

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[MrsReber]

Thanks Wendy! Men are curious creatures. He was cleaning out the room and he looked so sad. But he did it all on his own, I have to say. And rather quickly. I told him we had some time still since I haven't found what I want in a border or in paint, but he dove right in. He says he's sad, but he's happy for the reason behind it. Now he wants to do the whole house- carpet, new couch, paint two of the bedrooms. Ahhhh!!!!

Actually, we were only really trying since the end of July. It just happened alot faster than we thought. I was very surprised after hearing these stories from people who have been trying for years. I found out on September 18th. I am still finding it hard to believe, but my body tells me it's true. Hubby is very excited now. We talk about it all the time. We'll have fun telling the families, I'm sure. I sent my sister some flowers with a cryptic message. I'm sure she'll figure it out and call me. She's been hoping for this since before we got married! We only told my husband's one sister because she needed some good news after putting her dog to sleep. She said it really did cheer her up, but we hope she keeps the secret.

[jd]

MrsReber, I just have to comment on how unique our society has become. We are all here on the board knowing and sharing in your pregnancy, without knowing you personally, while your family is waiting to hear. We all have our own BB personalities and it is so nice to share in your excitement. It gives me a warm fuzzy being part of this group. Congratulations, MrsReber. Have lots of fun telling your families.

[MrsReber]

That is so great, mb! And what a coincidence! My clothes are getting tight, too. My regular work suits don't fit right anymore and I can't seem to button any of the jackets. I thought it was too soon for that, but I guess not. It is really exciting, though. I wanted to wait until Thanksgiving, too, when my family is all together. I don't know how much of a reaction I'll get since this will be the fourth grandchild on my side and the sixth on my husband's side. As far as work, you're in a tough situation, but no one can refuse to hire you because of your pregnancy. Even though the laws protect me, I am still sort of afraid to tell people, although I'm sure they'll be happy and supportive. We really weren't expecting to have success with getting pregnant so soon! Good luck to you and keep in touch!

jd, I just love the folks on the bb. I knew that I could share my news and get loads of advice from folks, too. Mb, everyone on here who knows has offered advice or shared a story with me. It's been great. It really is kind of fun to tell people, though. I know my husband loves to tell people! He worried about me more now. It's kind of nice. Guess I should enjoy it while it lasts.

[mb]

MrsReber, I'm sure you will get a wonderful reaction on Thanksgiving...especially if this is your first baby!

We're partially excited to tell everyone, yet also worried. It will be nice not to have to 'sneak around' - we have been out and about shopping for baby clothes & little things. Plus I feel like my body is expanding (i've already gained about 7 pounds!), but I'm not sure if others notice yet. But I'm also worried because I know that once we 'tell', there's no going back. I'm an only child & this is my parents first grandchild...we are definitely going to need some space!!

Good luck to you... By the way, has your nausea subsided? What do you do to make it stop?!? I'm one of those plan-the-menu-for-the-week people, & it's been so hard to plan the week lately because when I sit down with my CL, all of the yummy recipes turn my stomach!

[mb]

Congratulations to you, MrsReber! We're just about in the same boat...my husband and I are also about to celebrate 4 years since we met, and I'm 9 weeks pregnant now. I can't believe it either, but nausea & the fact that my clothes are getting too tight tells me that something really is going on in there! We haven't told anyone yet either, but we're planning to announce it to the family on Thanksgiving. I'm not sure how to tell my boss either (what's more tricky is that our agency is closing & i need to find a new job - how do you start a new job when you know you'll only be there for about 6 months???)

Good luck to you & your husband - let us know how you're doing (you can let me know what i can expect in 2 weeks!)

[Kathy]

Congratulations to you too, mb! This is so exciting! We need a virtual baby shower!I'll bet MamaSue could help us out! Maybe my kids can babysit for yours, Mrs. R..we are thinking of looking for houses in Brielle! (Is that actually any closer?! I know it is to Holly!)

[MrsReber]

Kathy, yes, babysitters welcome!! We will be taking offers! Wow, mb, you're shopping for baby stuff already? I haven't yet. I totally understand what you mean about "needing your space". I am terrified to tell my mother-in-law because I fear she will become overbearing.

I can relate to the illness. I haven't been cooking much at all lately for the same reason. All the foods that I loved I can no longer stand. Sometimes I don't want to eat at all. My husband has been very understanding and I try at least twice a week to cook him a well balanced meal. I am very into carbs, except pasta. And when I do cook something, I can eat it once and that's it. I never want to see it again.

I talked to the obstetric nurse at my dr's office. She gave me a few hints- the old flat ginger ale or even gingersnaps. Eat some crackers or something like that before getting up in the morning. Don't eat and drink at the same time because the water sloshing around with food can make you feel sick. I found that keeping something in my stomach helped,too. Oh, and Tums. They helped me out on occasion, too. It seems to be a little better than before. I was having trouble even food shopping. All those shelves full of food that I didn't want to eat!!

I had gained 7 pounds around the same time as you. I feel like it's too much, but the doctor says it's fine. I am afraid to get weighed again this Friday though! I will keep you updated.

[BethR]

Congrats to both of you! It is amazingly exciting to be expecting your first child! I laughed out loud when you talked about having TUMS for lunch! I lived on TUMS through two pregnancies. The nausea subsided by 12 weeks or so, but the indigestion was with me throughout.

You mentioned your suits starting to not fit... My friend showed me "the rubber band trick" back when I was in the same boat. Zip your skirt up as far as you can and then safety pin it so it doesn't zip down. Loop a rubber band through the buttonhole and then onto the button. Then you just keep your jacket on (unbuttoned) all day. This works great for that period when you're between your regular clothes and full-fledged maternity clothing.

Best of luck to both of you -- and enjoy it!

Beth

[MrsReber]

Neat trick Beth! I couldn't button my jackets if I wanted to!! I may have to try that with some of my skirts. I haven't shopped for one thing yet. Don't even have any maternity clothes. Guess I should get to the store soon, eh?

[Cindy Rafferty]

MrsReber and mb: Congradulations! About maternity clothes: it is possible to spend alot of $$$ on these, and you only wear them for a very short time. A good place to shop for them is J.C. Penny, both the catalog and store. I got wise the 2nd time (my boys are 9 1/2 and 3). Good luck and please let us know how everything is going, Cindy.

[sushibones]

Mrs Reber & mb--

I also wanted to add my congratulations. I will be following your progress with great interest--my daughter, who just moved out of state (to Portland OR), is also expecting. Her due date is June 4, so you are all pretty close together. This will be my first grandbaby (How can I possibly be a grandmother? I'm not even done being a mommy yet.), so it will be fun keeping track of how all three of you are doing.

Another Susan

[greta]

well, i MUST chime in...i am single with no kids of my own, but i have a 3 yr old nephew who is the love of my life. he called me last night and said, "i have a secret." i said, "oh, you do, do you?" he said, "mommy has a baby growing in her stomache." needless to say, aunt greta is on cloud nine this morning. their due date is june 5th!

[karen w]

Hey just a quick tip to all you pregos on the BB. Keep chewing on the TUMS, even after the nausea passes. It's a good source of calcium too. And you guys need it, especially if you plan on nursing!

[sushibones]

MrsReber

Well, I have to admit, my "babies" at home are almost 15 and 17. My married daughter is 23, but even then, you never stop being a mommy. And, truth be told, my "head" age is nowhere near my chronological age (sigh!!). I was a late starter with kids, and an even later finisher. Fifteen straight years of adolescence. What an adventure. http://www.cookinglight.com/bbs/eek.gif

[MrsReber]

Wow, popular time to be giving birth! Greta, that is so cute that your nephew told you! What a great idea! Sushibones, congrats to your daughter! My mom said the same thing about being a grandmother ("I'm too young! She can call me by my first name!") Now she'd refuse to be called anything but Grandma! My little brother (half-brother) was only 4 when my neice was born. So here's my dad becoming a grandfather while he's got a four year old and a 9 year old at home. Funny how society has changed so much.