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LaraW
08-17-2003, 09:38 PM
We got a call earlier tonight that DH's great Aunt Louise died this afternoon. She was a truly amazing woman.

I only met her about 7 or 8 years ago, while DH and I were dating and we came out to Colorado from Iowa for Thanksgiving. She was the wife of a Methodist minister and lived all over the US, I believe she was born and grew up in New England, but then lived in Iowa, Arizona, and Colorado that I know of. She and her husband also traveled a lot and hosted missionaries from all over the world.

She spent her life doing volunteer work in whatever local community she was living in at the time, since she wasn't able to work and was not about to spend her time sitting around. She had 4 children and lost 2 of them - 1 as an infant and the other sometime in the 1960's or early 1970's.

She turned 94 in June, and had only in the last couple of days really started to go downhill. She worked up until the end doing bead work (necklaces, bracelets, Christmas ornaments - than sort of thing), in fact, Jeff's aunt told us that her bed was full of beading stuff today when she was over there.

She went very peacefully in her sleep - her heart just stopped beating. She always said that she was going to "wear out not rust out" and that is exactly what she did.

So, while it is sad news, she certainly is someone who lived her life to the fullest and touched the lives of hundreds if not thousands of people.

Thanks for listening...

jmarie
08-17-2003, 10:46 PM
((((((HUGS)))))) I am so sorry to hear of your loss and what a wonderful testimony! Thank you for sharing and I will remember your family during this time.
Joyce

Betty Spaghetty
08-17-2003, 10:49 PM
Please tell your husband, sorry about the loss of his aunt. What a good life she had, went out still contributing to others and still useful. God blessed her with a quite, peaceful leaving. We all could
wish for this type of leaving of this life. AS they say, she went in
good style.

Canice
08-18-2003, 01:06 AM
I'm sorry for your and your DH's loss, Lara --- but it's certainly inspiring to hear stories of a life lived to its fullest. It sounds like Aunt Louise made the most of all the gifts and opportunities given to her in her life. May she rest in peace.

Canice
08-18-2003, 01:22 AM
I'm sorry for your and your DH's loss, Lara --- but it's certainly inspiring to hear stories of a life lived to its fullest. It sounds like Aunt Louise made the most of all the gifts and opportunities given to her in her life. May she rest in peace.

Mamasue
08-18-2003, 04:28 AM
I am so sorry Lara and DH. Like Canice said she went out in style and had a wonderful long life. She is in good hands now and will continue to do the good things she did here on earth. Hugs!

lhall
08-18-2003, 06:06 AM
Lara & Jeff,

I am very sorry to hear about the passing of you aunt. She sounds like a truly remarkable woman.

((((Hugs))))

Leigh

SueK
08-18-2003, 06:09 AM
(((Lara))) - Sorry to hear about DH's aunt. She sounds like a wonderful woman who led a very full life.

jjsooner73
08-18-2003, 06:27 AM
So sorry to hear of the passing of your DH's great aunt. It does sounds like she lived a very full life.
(hugs) to you and DH.

Kismet
08-18-2003, 06:47 AM
That is very sad news. So sorry for your loss!! (((Lara)))

Pico
08-18-2003, 06:55 AM
Thanks for sharing your lovely memories. She was as lucky to have caring family members like you as you were to have her. Prayers for all of you.

ISAIAH30_18
08-18-2003, 08:01 AM
(((((((Lara)))))))))

I'm so sorry Lara.

KathrynY
08-18-2003, 08:03 AM
Lara, she sounds like an amazing woman. Thanks for sharing your memories of her. I'm so sorry for your loss ((Lara & Jeff)).

Jessica
08-18-2003, 09:01 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Louise's story--she sounds like an incredible woman.

LaraW
08-18-2003, 09:42 AM
Thank you all for all your kind words. You know, its funny but I am just really surprised that she has died. Even though she was 94 and her health was failing and all.

I was just emailing a friend and remembered something that I thought was sort of funny.

Louise had severe osteoporosis and suffered through several broken hips and ultimately hip replacements for both hips at the age of 88. She had a really long recovery and I remember being out visiting and going to see her in the rehab hospital where she was recovering.

You have to understand that she stood 5 feet tall or less (actually recently we had measured her to be about 4 feet 9 inches tall) and had a large hump on her back from the osteoporosis.

She was in a wheelchair at the time, and spent her days visiting (in her words) "those elderly people" who don't have anyone to visit them.

:)

Wendy w
08-18-2003, 09:45 AM
((((((((Lara & DH))))))))
Thank you for sharing her live with us, I'm sure that you will miss her very much.

sharris315
08-18-2003, 10:11 AM
What a beautiful tribute to Great Aunt Louise! She was obviously an extraordinary woman who lived her life in a way that most of us just aspire to do. Whether we know her or not, we ALL benefit from a person like her--we are inspired to do better, be friendlier, give more, try harder, be kinder...in general, to do what really counts!

I'm sure this is hard for you, and you'll miss her is so many ways. The world is better for her having been here--Thank you for sharing her remarkable life!

Shar

Terrytx
08-18-2003, 10:13 AM
An amazing life she lived, and what a nice way to go.