mochadelsol
04-05-2004, 09:12 AM
Good morning, I must admit I'm a lurker. I come out because I need to share and from what I have seen this BB is so full of loving and supportive people. Be fore warned this is lengthy:o
The Good: After 9 months of my DD & I living apart from my DH, we are getting back together. He did what was needed and were going to be a family again. We have sold our home and bought a new one. We will be moving this week:D
The Ugly: Then there comes a day like Friday, our realtor calls me to say the home were selling is actually less square footage than we all thought and we must lower the price, this comes as a total shock since the phone call we were waiting for was the call to come in and sign. Since closing is before the 15th of April. So this is a huge hit, and I'm feeling like crap and do not want to tell my DH. Then on the loan for the new house I find out I'm in a bit of trouble. I have co-signed on a loan for my friend who is behind on her payments oh the trouble that causes. So after about an hour that gets cleared up, but then I haven't told DH this either:o oh the web we spin. So I pour out all this to him and well let's say he wasn't smiling. After all this yes the phone rings yet again, we get to go in and sign for our new home today, okay great we do even though DH can barely speak to me;) When we get home the lady were buying our new home from calls, (she is selling it herself) well she tells us that after signing she sees that the house price is wrong:confused: that it's actually 900.00 more. I have no idea how she thinks this, she says yes that the flyer she printed reads blah blah. Well I don't recall this nor do I have the flyer and I'm thinking were done signing for the house, we've just taken a huge hit on selling our home and I just can't deal with this. She says oh we will just work it out. How about we just let it go is what I'm thinking, so we do a search and find the inital papers we signed to get the sell going and the price is exactly what we signed for at closing. Now for the last.
The bad...Friday night our daughter was in a Track event at a Community College, we parked in the well lit parking lot near the football field. I was stupid and tried to push my purse under the front seat. But since the car was well lit, the thief could see my purse. So he decided to smash in the window, and steal my purse:mad: when we got to the car DD & her friend saw this and I thought she was kidding (were all big on teasing) but then I see she is crying, my baby girl was so upset. Well by then after the day we had, I just went cold calm. We cleaned up as best we could the security guards helped and wrote up a report. We drove home with the heater blasing it was a cool 42. When I got home I began to call and cancel everything, and write a list of all that I lost. Lesson learned there.
Went to bed thinking okay tomorrow is another day. As I closed my eyes I thanked the lord for all the good, that our family will be together again in our new home, our new begining.
Thank you all if you have made it this far.
~linda~
The Good: After 9 months of my DD & I living apart from my DH, we are getting back together. He did what was needed and were going to be a family again. We have sold our home and bought a new one. We will be moving this week:D
The Ugly: Then there comes a day like Friday, our realtor calls me to say the home were selling is actually less square footage than we all thought and we must lower the price, this comes as a total shock since the phone call we were waiting for was the call to come in and sign. Since closing is before the 15th of April. So this is a huge hit, and I'm feeling like crap and do not want to tell my DH. Then on the loan for the new house I find out I'm in a bit of trouble. I have co-signed on a loan for my friend who is behind on her payments oh the trouble that causes. So after about an hour that gets cleared up, but then I haven't told DH this either:o oh the web we spin. So I pour out all this to him and well let's say he wasn't smiling. After all this yes the phone rings yet again, we get to go in and sign for our new home today, okay great we do even though DH can barely speak to me;) When we get home the lady were buying our new home from calls, (she is selling it herself) well she tells us that after signing she sees that the house price is wrong:confused: that it's actually 900.00 more. I have no idea how she thinks this, she says yes that the flyer she printed reads blah blah. Well I don't recall this nor do I have the flyer and I'm thinking were done signing for the house, we've just taken a huge hit on selling our home and I just can't deal with this. She says oh we will just work it out. How about we just let it go is what I'm thinking, so we do a search and find the inital papers we signed to get the sell going and the price is exactly what we signed for at closing. Now for the last.
The bad...Friday night our daughter was in a Track event at a Community College, we parked in the well lit parking lot near the football field. I was stupid and tried to push my purse under the front seat. But since the car was well lit, the thief could see my purse. So he decided to smash in the window, and steal my purse:mad: when we got to the car DD & her friend saw this and I thought she was kidding (were all big on teasing) but then I see she is crying, my baby girl was so upset. Well by then after the day we had, I just went cold calm. We cleaned up as best we could the security guards helped and wrote up a report. We drove home with the heater blasing it was a cool 42. When I got home I began to call and cancel everything, and write a list of all that I lost. Lesson learned there.
Went to bed thinking okay tomorrow is another day. As I closed my eyes I thanked the lord for all the good, that our family will be together again in our new home, our new begining.
Thank you all if you have made it this far.
~linda~