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mbrogier
10-22-2005, 01:26 AM
Rob had his double hernia surgery last Thursday. Because of an emergency case, he didn't go into surgery until 6pm that night. He was in a lot of pain in the recovery room, and the surgeon said it wasn't a problem for him to stay the night for better pain management. Since we live 30 minutes away on a long bumpy road, and Rob has had issues with the foley catheters in the past, I convinced him to stay although he really didn't want to.

I got up early the next morning, stopped at Starbucks and got us both lattes thinking he'd be up and raring to go. I walked into his room and didn't recognize him. His blood pressure had dropped and his abdomen was distended. I immediately forgot all about the Starbucks. Nurses were everywhere, and it wasn't long before Rob was transfered to ICU. A cat scan showed internal bleeding. (I thought that was what it was when I saw him--he looked like he had swallowed a bowling ball) He was given blood tranfusions--a total of 6 units in two days.

He was rushed in for an angiogram, and the doctors were able to stop the bleeding without another surgery. A small artery had been hit with one of the tacks from the mesh from the hernia surgery. It didn't start bleeding until after he was closed up. Actually the pressure of starting the angiogram stopped the bleeding, so they had to play around with the dyes to find the exact spot and fix it. Because I had so many treatments in that department with those doctors and nurses, I was allowed in the room before the procedure and then when they were figuring out how to procede. I saw what artery it was and exactly what had happened. There was no way it was surgeon error. The artery was tiny.

Rob stayed until Friday night. He did really well and is now on iron supplements because his iron is low. The hernia surgery worked, and he is feeling much better from that. The surgeon said that definitely needed to be done. (I felt really guilting about insisting that Rob get them fixed. The surgeon assured me that the surgery was the right call.)

I am so glad that Rob did not go home the night of his surgery. Our city does not have ambulance service to the hospital that we use, and it would have been a nightmare. I know that I would have know that something was definitely wrong when he woke up, but his recovery would have been a lot more severe. It was really scary for the first 24 hours. I am just glad that I listened to that little inner voice.

Rob is looking forward to lots of steaks and spinach. He figures he should get something good out of this. :D

Gecko
10-22-2005, 01:40 AM
Feed him all the steak and spinach he wants - he deserves it :) And pick out something you really enjoy too. Wow, what a rough time he had (and you too). Something in your subconscience must have subtly warned you that he would need to stay in overnight - what a good call. I am glad to hear that he is on the mend now.

stefania4
10-22-2005, 05:31 AM
What a blessing that he stayed overnight at the hospital - best of luck to both of you over the next week or two!

Natasha
10-22-2005, 06:07 AM
What a hard couple of days that must have been :( I'm glad to hear that he is on the road to recovery now! I hope he enjoys the steak and spinach :)

wallycat
10-22-2005, 06:27 AM
Speedy recovery to him. Yikes. That's enough to scare any man from ever going back to a doctor :eek: :o

SusanL
10-22-2005, 06:48 AM
Speedy recovery to him. Yikes. That's enough to scare any man from ever going back to a doctor
Best wishes to you both!

Kathy B
10-22-2005, 07:11 AM
Glad things worked out for you so that he was in the right place when things went wrong, and that they were able to stop the bleeding without another surgery. What a blessing! Hope you can relax and get a little rest yourself now. Take care!

colleency
10-22-2005, 09:38 AM
Oh my gosh! How frightening for you! Hugs to you both, and wishes for speedy recovery to Rob.

oceanjasper
10-22-2005, 09:57 AM
How scary for you! I am glad to hear that he is on the mend. I think a little spoiling is definitely in order! :)

HealthyinMN
10-22-2005, 10:01 AM
Scary indeed, glad to hear recovery is starting to go well! Hope it keeps up!

kima
10-22-2005, 02:43 PM
Good for you for listening to that inner voice. :)


Best wishes to both you and Rob. So glad he is on the road to recovery.

Take care.

Beth
10-22-2005, 03:21 PM
Yikes -- I had 3 pints and know how bad I was! I'm so glad he was were he needed to be, that things were caught in time and repaired without another surgery. Being with him during the procedure probably helped keep you and him more confident about everything.

I know it was rough and frightening, but as you move beyond those moments, remember how many things went right. Not making light of anything, to be sure, but he is safe and well now, he won't have to worry about giving blood for more than a year, and he can insist on steak and spinach (don't forget raisins, dried apricots, beans and peas and whole grains). He has to be very careful about alcohol though -- a little will hit him much harder than he is used to until the blood is built back up. ;)

Next week is bound to be better! Hugs to you both. ((( )))

Kay Henderson
10-22-2005, 05:07 PM
How terrifying! I am so glad to hear that your DH is on the mend.

Kay

HejazSunKat
10-22-2005, 05:25 PM
Good for you for listening to that inner voice. :)



Amen! What a scary episode. Glad to hear he's on the mend.

Canice
10-22-2005, 06:41 PM
What a scary and upsetting incident! Sorry you had to go through that, but glad Rob is on the mend. Sounds like you're ready to start preparing some classic steak house menus!

cookinator
10-22-2005, 09:15 PM
I just want to wish Rob a speedy recovery and a much better week for you. Gosh, I'd make him a steak myself ;) , but it would probably be cold by the time he got it.

VictoriaL
10-22-2005, 09:44 PM
Wow. What an awful experience! I'm so glad that he's on the mend. Time for you to take a much-deserved break as well!

My Dad had hernia surgery last week, and fortunately his appears to have been a quite opposite experience. He was taken in to surgery at 9:45am and discharged at 12:15pm! No amount of arguing could get him to stay overnight, so we drove 4 hours back to his house. I had plotted all of the nearby hospitals on our return route, but (in spite of a meatloaf-and-mashed potatoes lunch) he didn't need any more medical care. I hope that I inherited those genes.... ;)

mbrogier
10-22-2005, 10:27 PM
I am very thankful that so many things went right in all of this. God was really watching out for us.

We don't drink alcohol, so he won't have to worry about that. ;) I will be using my cast iron skillet more often. Rob is also taking iron tablets. He had one of the lowest iron readings our doctor had ever seen. He is upset about not being able to give blood. He really liked doing that. (when they gave him blood, I closed my eyes and silently thanked all the blood donors) He's been having chills and hot flashes recently so I've been teasing him about getting women's blood. :D (the chills/hot flashes are his body absorbing the extra blood--he is not running a fever and does not have an infection. we kept him in the hospital two extra days to make sure of that.)

Rob is really healthy and never has health issues. He had a phenominal surgeon. These things just happen. I'm just a little skittish because I still have to have surgery in a month or so. There's no getting out of it. It has to happen.

SusanL
10-23-2005, 06:02 AM
We will keep you in our prayers as well, please let us know how you are doing!

mbrogier
10-23-2005, 11:25 AM
I have multiple ovarian cysts that will not go away. They are causing me severe pain. Because of my blood clot disorder (factor V leiden) and my previous stroke, I cannot do hormone therapy like birth control to take care of them. The only way to get rid of them is surgery. I absolutely have to get it done because on the other ovary, the cysts kept growing until they cut the blood supply off, the ovary scarred off, and it started to die. My doctor also thinks my endometriosis may be back.

I do really well with surgery, and my doctors keep me in the hospital overnight anyway just to make sure I'm stable.