OT: When people need help...

[AndreaU]

Just something to ponder; something I experienced first-hand today. If someone needs help, why do some people seem reluctant to lend a hand? DH & I were kayaking today, something we do quite often. We just got out of our boats to eat lunch when we noticed a canoeist dump out of his boat in some rapids. Our first instinct was to jump in our boats and help the guy. He must have floated at least 1/2 mile-1 mile while clinging to his canoe before we could catch up and stop him. Meanwhile, several boats full of people either passed by nonchalantly or thought he was playing around. No one else on shore even flinched to help out.

Thankfully, the man was fine. He lost his shoes but managed to hang on to his lunch, glasses, hat & boat. And his oar got stuck on a rock so we got it for him. I guess I'm wondering why it happened that nobody else attempted to do anything. I understand that most people may not even have the slightest clue as to what to do in such a situation. Some might fear making matters worse, I suppose. But wouldn't you at least call to him or call others to attention so they can help out?

I know this is a CL BB, but with so many kind & caring individuals here, maybe you can enlighten me. Looking back, we realized we should have done some things differently, but we don't regret what we did for a second.

[KarenNC]

Just consider yourself a guardian angel. Your good deed will definitely return to you!

[Jewel]

I agree with you Andrea. Believe me when I say those people that kept going are the same ones that won't pull over for an ambulance on the freeway. I watched an ambulance try to get around a guy for at least a minute a few days ago, whooping his siren and trying to steer around them. The guy acted like the ambulance wasn't even there.

I sometimes wonder about this national disinterest in each other that seems to be an epidemic. At least most of US aren't there yet! Rest assured, Andrea, that what you did today makes you a better person. I hope the ones that passed him by learned something today. Stand proud! http://www.cookinglight.com/bbs/biggrin.gif

[BlueMoose]

I'm glad to say that I think most people up in my little corner of the world are still pretty helpful and considerate of one another

[AndreaU]

Thanks... I posted this to hopefully make people aware that they CAN make a difference and help someone who may need it. All you have to do is ask- I would think most people in trouble would be grateful to have a helping hand.