Because my sister isn't doing the job.

I live in a very small community, great education, have a child,House, self sufficient. Etc.

I had been dating a guy for the past three years, get along great, owned a lobster boat together, skied, dinner every night, etc.

Now he has found his true love via facebook in Florida and I'm the bad guy.

I'm 51, decent looking, loyal, vassar grad in economics. the area I live in there are just no men, I apologize for my grammar, I'm using an iPad. My sister keeps telling me he's a great guy, this while he's making plans to sell the lobster boat and go to Florida,

Please please tell me that I'm too young for this and to get my groove on. I'm heartbroken and feel like I'm being sucked not quicksand in this small town. My sister tells me ways to get him back, not sure if I want to.

Please knock some sense into me.