We received regrets for the showers and then the guest brought the gift to the wedding.
Some sent regrets to the shower, and then ordered off the registry and sent the gift straight to the bride's address.
And some were asking what else they needed so they could bring a gift to the wedding in addition to the shower gift and were pleasantly surprised when I told them one gift was all that was needed.
I would send regrets to both showers and deliver the gift to the wedding, as there will be a table set up for that reason. (Oh, just re-read), send the gift to the hostess, and forget about the rest.
Everyone who is invited to the shower is supposed to be invited to the wedding. And there is definitely an etiquette rule that covers the one gift per wedding. (either via shower, via wedding, via registry)
Have fun at the wedding! If it was half as much fun as ours, you are going to have a BLAST!!
Tuesday, November 6, 2012