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    August 2003 New Moms

    Hi all,

    It's pretty hard to believe that it's August already. It seems like the summer is flying by. School starts here next week.

    Garrett's grandparents have been here a week and are leaving tomorrow. They have been such a huge help. They really love their grandson. I barely spend any time with him since they are hogging him! The number of new toys in the house is amazing. I'm going to put some of them away since Garrett is somewhat overwhelmed by the quantity.

    Garrett is crawling really fast and is standing up all the time. He can now reach to the kitchen table. There is very little that he can't get into now.

    I just wanted to get the thread going so I need to run. I'm taking advantage of the grandparents being here to get out without the baby.
    It's amazing how wonderful it is to get out to run errands without Garrett.

    Cheryl

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    Cheryl, sounds like Garrett and your parents are having a great time! That's nice that you can get a little break too. Doesn't it feel strange to go out by yourself?! I always feel like I am forgetting something if all I have to do is get myself out of the car!

    It's been so quiet around here with everyone's travels? AnnaSue, has the evil MIL arrived yet?

    Well, we had an OK weekend. Lots of storms, though. We did make it out to our town's festival, so that was fun for the kids. Rick Springfield (remember him? Dr. Noah Drake and Jessie's Girl) was playing there. Kind of funny. But we left before then. It was getting too crowded and hard to keep an eye on the kids.

    Then yesterday we went to the Cubs game. I should say we went to Wrigley Field and ate hot dogs, popcorn, and peanuts. Never actually saw a game. They had a three hour rain delay before the game actually started. Luckily we had seats that were covered. We left after two hours because the boys were getting restless and Caitlyn was at home with a babysitter. We didn't know if the game would be called off and we didn't want to leave Caitlyn that long. It did wind up being played, though! Kind of dissappointing, but, oh well.

    Tomorrow Caitlyn has her appt. with the orthopedist. Hopefully we won't get any bad news! I'm a bit concerned about Jameson now. He started doing this thing with his eyes where there are darting back and forth and sometimes up. It's really weird. He doesn't know he's doing it. He did this before when he was about two or three. It only lasted a day and then it went away, so we never called the doctor. That time I thought he might be doing it on purpose. This time I called the doctor and we are going in tomorrow. I pray that it is nothing serious. He also has a small lump on the side of his neck which I'm a bit worried about. So, keep up all in your thoughts tomorrow!

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    Oh Joanne, I hope everything goes well tomorrow. Too bad about the cubs game, too. I wouldn't have lasted as long as you did.

    We've had a truly eventful weekend. Saturday we put money down on a new home. It's new construction, so we won't be moving until June '04. For those of you in the Chicago area, we're moving to Bolingbrook. We are in the South Loop right now, so it'll be a big change. We're excited, but a little spooked, too.

    Yesterday we visited DH's cousin. You may remember that she had an anuerysm the end of April. She is FINALLY starting to respond. She was kind of out of it yesterday, so we read Harry Potter to her. When she didn't fall asleep on us, she smiled. Everybody is very excited.

    Hanne is doing well. She's got walking down and is starting to pick up speed. She is also consistently sleeping through the night. Yea! She goes to bed at 7:30 and gets up anywhere between 5:30 and 7:30. DH got up with her this morning and I went to the gym for a class. We're going to try to take turns getting up with her so the other can go work out.

    I guess that's all. I hope all of the vacations are going well. I'll be thinking of Caitlyn and Jameson tomorrow!

    Erin

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    Hi everyone,

    Back from my week at the Oregon coast. At first I wasn't sure why I'd ever thought it would be fun - just my Mom and I and 6 kids (ages 7,6,5,4,3 and Lainey at 10 months!). We arrived at the rental house at 6pm on Monday, everyone hungry and needing to unload all the stuff from the 2 vehicles. Lainey is going through major seperation anxiety these days so I had to do it carrying her back and forth each time. I'm defintely not used to being around that many active kids! Later that night I overhead one of the kids say to another "when you're a grown-up you get to do whatever you want." and I didn't know whether to laugh or cry. After settling in it was much more relaxing and fun. Lainey didn't care for the sand too much but got so she could enjoy sitting on a blanket or my holding her on the beach. She loved the house though as there was much for her to explore and pull herself up on. In fact, she's really close to walking - took 3-4 steps on Saturday.

    I've read quickly through the past threads and apologize for missing stuff. I do want to second Cheryl's recommendation for Robeez shoes (http://www.robeez.com). I love them! I ordered my first a few months ago after a camping trip when Lainey's socks just got all wet and muddy and wouldn't stay on. These shoes really stay on! And I gather they're suppose to be really good for early walkers for foot development purposes. I just picked the classic brown style so they'd go with everything. Now that she's in daycare she wears shoes every day so I just ordered the next size (12-18 months) and I ordered classic brown and splurged on the Orca design since she wears them so often. They arrived really quickly (but then they're in Vancouver, BC and I'm in Portland). I only wish that they offered gift certificates as I wanted to give it to an expecting friend -so I just sent a check and their brochure instead. I think some stores carry the shoes too - Nordstrom's out here does.

    Joanne - my nephews love love love Spiderman! everything spider is so cool right now. Amazing things you do for your kids! I'll be thinking of Caitlyn and Jameson - let us know. Did you ever get your insurance thing settled??

    Yeah Katie on crawling!!!!

    Yeah Brenden on walking!!!


    Oh one other update, on my sling. I'd ordered the pouch sling from Maya but ordered it too big (I orderd the XL - I'm a larger women and just figured that was what I needed - well I probably needed the medium actually! it's more torso length). Apparently I'm not the only one that's had trouble getting the size right (this in the non-adjustable sling they have an adjustable one but I was looking for the easiest to use). The woman on the phone was helpful and said they're just now selling a pouch sling that has zippers to change the size of the sling. It's only in prototype so could only choose denim or black verses all the great vibrant patterns they have for their other slings. I've used it a few times now (at the beach and this mornings commute) and it's really what I was looking for! Even with the medium size i'm using the zippers to shorten it some.

    Kim

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    Erin - I was typing my post when yours came up. Congratulations on the house!! change is always a bit nerve-racking. Getting used to a new grocery store etc. but what a wonderful opportunity to have a house built. Excellent news about your DH's cousin too.

    Kim

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    Erin, congrats on the new house! I'm sure it is exciting and overwhelming at the same time! I always wanted to buy a new house so we could start fresh and pick all the colors/carpets/cabinets, etc. But I don't think we'll ever move again. It would be a huge undertaking! But I actually like our neighborhood alot and the schools are great. We just need to get working on updating our house. It's only been eight years, what's the rush, right?!

    Wow, Kim, I didn't realize it was just you and your mom and all those kids! That is alot of work. Almost sounded like my family, minus a couple kids! I'm sure they all had a blast, though.

    I've given the insurance company our information about the other coverage. Now I'm just waiting for the other shoe to drop. Hopefully they won't pursue trying to get the HMO to pay. We are now using the HMO for Caitlyn's visits. It's already been a hassle because I had to get a referral for the orthopedist. That was fine. But then they called today and said they were going to do an xray. So we had to go get another referral for that. She had an xray at six months but they want to do another to compare. I'm glad they're doing the xray, but it is a good thing they called, otherwise we wouldn't have the referral.

    Thanks for your good thoughts about the visits tomorrow. I am really starting to stress out about Jameson. I have a feeling she might refer us to a neurologist. I'm just so nervous that it could be something really serious. Sometimes I just want a normal, boring life!!

    Erin, that is great about your cousin. I remember when you posted about her. I had been wondering how she was doing.

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    Joanne, my thoughts are going out for you and the kids. I'm so impressed that you took the kids to a festival and the Cub's game over the weekend. Too bad about the rain delay.

    Kim, Oh my! I can't imagine your vacation. Yea on Lainey walking!!!! I bet she had a blast exploring. Garrett is non-stop moving. You got a Maya sling didn't you? I have the adjustable original baby sling, but am considering upgrading to a Maya. Maybe I'll have to get a pouch.

    Erin, Yea on the house! Bollingbrook is a great area. I would love to build a house, but I don't know whether my marriage could stand it. Ha Ha. DH and I wouldn't agree on where to put our money on adders.

    Cheryl

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    Oops, Kim, I missed the part on Lainey walking! Yea!! That's so cool!

    Cheryl, now that you mentioned, my marriage probably wouldn't survive building a house either! That's half the reason we haven't painted some of our rooms; we argue about the color.

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    So funny you all should mention about marriage and building a house. My mom just said that all couples should build a house together before getting married - that way they'd know they could make it through anything. They're just about to break ground on a house they've been talking about & planning for a few years (ever since they became guardians of my younger sister's 3 children and their little "log cabin" became way too small).

    DH and my (older) sister did join us at the coast Friday night through the weekend, but yeah it was a lot of activity during the week!

    Hey with all these birthdays being discussed, it has me thinking of Lainey's 1st one coming up in less than 2 months now. I was thinking about investing in a a really nice wood block set (the bigger blocks not the little colored ones or the letter cubes). Is she still too young to really get much out of these? I think its around $200?? Hoping it can be bought in smaller sets so other family members could help build the supply. I need to check the First Steps catalog (isn't that the name of the catalog with all the "old fashioned" toys in it? I can't find their web site). I'd love to hear what other toys/items 1 year olds really enjoy that will be used for awhile...

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    Hi I'm back from Colorado. It's been very busy weekend. Wedding was very nice, and Noah did pretty well. Reharsal(sp?) dinner started at 7:45pm so we were expected Noah would be fussy, but he was happy most of the time, eating garlic bread and pizza (it was an Italian restaurant). Flights were okay, too. On the way home, as soon as we got on board, he pooped so I had to change him while the seatbelt sign was still on. He didn't like it and cried a lot. But most of the time, he did good, but we were tired from entertaining him all the time. It was definetely easier a few months back when he wasn't so mobile!

    We wanted to see his great-grandma for the first time but unfortunately, she was hospitalized the day before we arrived...she had some colon problem and eventually needs surgery. We could have visited the hospital, but they thought it was not a good idea since West Nile Virus is around. So we missed her. Oh well. FIL was better this time,,, actually he kind of baby-proofed the house (nothing in lower shelf etc.) and according to his girlfriend, he was kind of excited to have Noah this time. He didn't like so much excited at first, but I noticed he was closely watching him play (but didn't play together).

    We came home to the sad news, though.....our very close friend's mother passed away yesterday. She had 2 heartattack on Saturday and hospitarized, needed surgery but the hospital she was in could not do it so she was supposed to be transported. Sunday, she had 3rd heartattack and they could not stabilize her. She was very, very close to us, just like my own family. She once told me that last time she went to see a doctor was 50 years ago. She didn't have any apparent medical problem so everyone is so devastated. I talked to my friend and she just crushed on the phone....could not stop crying. They haven't figured out about funeral and everything, but I hope I can do something to help them out. I wanted her to come to Noah's birthday party and thinking I won't be able to see here here on earth makes me sooooo sad. She cherished Noah very much and such a wonderful lady.

    DH left for his business trip today. It just came up last Thursday (on the day we left) and he could not avoid it. It's been pretty hectic around here.....Noah's schedule is messed up, too, and at 5pm, he's taking a nap.

    Joanne, hope Jameson's eyes are nothing serious. I'm thinking of him and Caitlyn tomorrow!

    Kim, sounds like you had a busy weekend, too! That's a lot of kids and I'd be so overwhelmed, too. Yay Lainey for walking!!! DH wants to get nice blocks for Noah's first birthday. I don't think it's too early.....actually Noah likes to stack up the things so he'll like it. She may not play them as blocks for a while, but she'll learn soon enough, I think.

    Cheryl, congratulations on your new house downpayment!!! That's exciting. Our house is very old, and although I like it, sometimes I wish I had a brand-new house. Having parents must be such a help. I agree with you about toys....you should hide some and just give him one by one so he'd appreciate it more.

    Erin, glad to hear that your DH's cousin is getting better a little bit! I was wondering how she was doing, too.

    Noah's birthday is coming up and I really have to get stuff together....but with my friend's mom's death, it's kind of hard to be totally happy. I'm sure everyone would think of her at his birthday party, too.

    Gotta go get some stuff done! Nice to be back home, though.

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    Hi! We're back, too! The kids did great in the truck. On the way there, we only stopped once for gas. On the way home, we got gas about an hour into the trip. The kids stayed happy in the truck the rest of the way home - almost 5 hours of nonstop driving! I'm wondering why we'd ever want to potty train them ! The only bad thing that happened was when I fell out of bed yesterday morning. I heard Brenden get up. I was sleeping in the bed with Casey and DH was sleeping on the couch (his choice- he didn't want the kids to disturb him). I went to get Brenden and fell right off the side, landing on my left shoulder. It still hurts pretty bad when I move it certain ways. Getting dressed was difficult, but I still made it to work. I even went to the gym, but I didn't take the step class. I only did 40 minutes on the elliptical trainer. I'm debating whether or not to go to a doctor. I've had enough shoulder and knee injuries to know that they'll tell me to put ice on it and rest it. By the time I go to my GP, get a referral for an ortho, go to the ortho and then get a referral for an x-ray (insurance won't pay for it if it's done in the office) and then go back to the ortho- well, I might just be better by that time!

    Joanne, I hope everything is okay with your son. That's really scary. I'll be thinking of you.

    DH called and said Brenden is out of sorts this morning. He's been pulling at his ear when he's tired. We don't know if we should worry about it or not. They were so happy to be home last night. They just played and played for hours. They made a total mess out of the living room.

    Kim, my mom bought Casey blocks for her first birthday. They were small blocks with letter and numbers and a set of building blocks. She was interested in them, but didn't really start to play with them (stacking, etc.) until a couple of months later. She did like to pick them up, examine them, chew on them, and put them in things, though.

    Nori, glad your trip went well. Sounds like it was fun. I'm sure your FIL was thrilled to have Noah there. My dad is very laid back about things. When we went to surprise him, he didn't seem overwhelmed when we got there. DH and I thought he'd be so excited. I guess he was, but he doesn't show it outwardly so much. I'm the same way with that, though. So sorry to hear about your friend's mother. That's very sad news to come home to.

    Well, DH is talking more and more about moving stuff and building something on our property. I have to keep the momentum going! I think our marriage will survive because we both seem to have the same ideas about everything. Odd how that worked out. We know where we want the kitchen, we both can imagine a little circular drive (we never really talked about these things, either!). He wants to have someone come in and clear some of the trees on the lot. Keeping my fingers crossed that we build something by next year!
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    MrsReber, there's this couple at the wedding who came from VA. DH was talking to them how they like it overthere etc, etc, and it sounded pretty nice! DH looked he's kind of interested in considering to move to VA someday. (just one of the possibilities....it's so dry and we miss real river and lake ) And I was thinking about you. It'll be exciting once you really started to plan on building a house or something on your property. They said some parts of VA you have to buy a house (or lot?) with at least several acres in it, to keep them spread. We thought that's a great idea. We like wide, open space. Is it expensive to live in VA?? Hope Brenden is not getting sick!

    We'll be bringing some food after the funeral tomorrow morning, and I'm assigned to bring chips and dips. I'll go shopping once Noah woke up from his nap. He woke up only twice last night! Yes that was a good night for us.

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    Nori, VA has so many different terrains. There's lots of beach, there's mountains, there's rolling hills. It's so diverse, but every part of it that we've seen has been very beautiful. The cost of living all depends on what area you live in. It's fairly cheap where our property is, but if you go north on Route 95, toward Washington DC, it gets more expensive. I think it's still cheaper than NJ! Tell your DH to come live near us when we finally move- Brenden can have be Noah's friend!

    It's so hard getting back in to working after a few days away. I didn't want to come to work today and I'm not getting much done. Only about an hour left until I go home, though. I'm tired and I just want to be home with my kids. Poor Casey missed home so much. She kept telling us "I want home". She said that right after we got to VA. There was a sound in the house when we got there at 2:00am. DH said "it sounds like a bear". In all honesty, it did sound like a bear, but I told him I thought it was the fridge. It was. The water wasn't hooked up to the ice maker so it made a weird noise. Well, poor Casey heard him say he thought it was a bear. She was terrified and shaking. She wanted to leave right away and I couldn't put her down. The whole time we were there, she kept telling me there was a bear in the house. Then, on the way home, DH drove over those strips on the side of the highway. Every time she heard that noise, she told me it was a bear! When we got home, she got upset with her stuffed brown bear. I don't know where this all came from!
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    Welcome back Nori. Glad the trip & wedding went well. I'm sorry about your friend's mom.

    Susan - it sounds like you all are really getting somewhere with your VA property. You'd live there full time? Would that require you or DH to change jobs? I know all those states on your side are little itty bitty but don't know what kind of commute you'd be talking from your property. How far would you be from your Mom?

    Joanne have you had your doctor's appts. yet??

    I just read about a recall on Fisher Price Sparkling Symphony mobiles in case anyone has one -- read it on CNN http://www.cnn.com/2003/TECH/ptech/0...ice/index.html

    Lainey's first swim lesson was last night. She did better than I thought, which isn't saying much since I expected her to cry through the whole thing. She really only got upset when the instructor took her to float on her back. She was clinging to me pretty good (and kept a close eye on the instructor after that point). DH managed to get a few half-smiles out of her. I'm pretty sure she didn't take an afternoon nap (wasn't marked on her daycare sheet and I didn't notice that until I was on the bus so couldn't ask if they'd just forgotten to mark it, she seemed really sleepy in the car so I'm doubly impressed that she didn't make a fuss. Most of the kids are older - only 1 other baby really, most are definitely over a year. Kind of surprised me.

    Kim

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    Hi Kim! Our property in VA is about 6 hours from my mom. However, she and her fiance have a house in Maryland and that's about 3 1/2 - 4 hours from our property. My sister is a mere 90 minutes away in NC! NJ is a small state, but it takes forever to get anywhere with all the traffic! We'd definitely have to change jobs. I actually want to stay at home IF we move so I look for work for DH all the time. We've been subscribing to a VA paper for a while now, too. I would like to do something, though. It'd be great to even have a vacation home there that we can use for retirement later. It seems to be getting somewhat more populated in the area so jobs are bound to come up. There are 2 little restaurants in town. I wish we could buy one! One is for sale and the other, Grandma's Kitchen, just closed. It said that Grandma retired! They serve breakfast and lunch. I could do that! DH says "with the way you cook, they'd all want to eat here!".

    Casey hates pools. No swimming lessons for us! Brenden isn't too fond of them either. I got him in once and he does like to splash his feet while sitting on the side. Both kids are terrified and Brenden will only go in if I am holding him. I'm kind of surprised that so many people bring babies to swimming classes. For us, it wouldn't matter too much. We don't have our own pool and probably only swim a couple of times a year ourselves. They'd just forget everything by the time the warm weather came around again. I would like them to learn when they're older, though. For some reason, I have recurring nightmares about drowning so water makes me a bit nervous, too.
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    Nori, Glad the wedding went well. Traveling with a mobile baby is much harder than one who is happy to sit on your lap. sorry to hear about your friend's mother.

    Susan, good luck on building a house on your property in VA. You're lucky that your DH and you agree on what you want in a house. I'm sure DH and I could do it, but it would take a lot of planning and prioritizing.

    Joanne, Have you heard from the doctors?

    Kim, wow, it's great that Lainey enjoyed her swimming class. I don't think Garrett would like to float. He is really scared when you lay him back. He thinks he is falling.

    My parents left today. I'm really sad to see them go. They were wonderful with Garrett and so generous. I think Garrett and I will fly to Ohio early next month to go to an Ohio State game and see them there.

    Cheryl

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    Welcome back everyone! Sounds like everyone had a nice time!

    Nori, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend's mom. I know how sad it can be to lose a friend like that. Our neighbor when we first moved in our house was a elderly woman and she became like a grandmother to the kids. She died last year and it was really sad.

    We had both appts. today. The orthopedist took another xray and said the hip socket is slightly steeper than it should be. It's a really mild form of hip displaxia. She said for now we don't need to do anything. She said as Caitlyn consistently puts more weight on her legs it should resolve itself. She wants to see her in six months and if it hasn't improved at all she might put her in a brace just at night. So, no bad news, thank god.

    Jameson's went OK, too. He isn't doing the thing with his eyes as much, but he did do it a few times in the office. The doctor seemed a bit concerned. She did a neurological exam (testing the reflexes and all that) and said all that was fine. She called the neurologist to see what he thought and he said it sounded like a tic. The doctor said she is confident it is nothing to worry about. She said to go ahead and make an appointment with the neurologist for a month from now. If he is still doing it, keep the appt., if not, cancel it. So, I feel pretty good about it, although I'm still a bit concerned. I think I'll keep the appt. whether or not it goes away completely. She said the lump on his neck is just a lymph node. It's not swollen, but it's right on top of a muscle, so that's why it sticks out. So, that was a relief.

    Tonight Caitlyn felt a bit warm, I took her temperature and it was 102. So, I called the doctor and she said to bring her in first thing in the morning unless she gets worse tonight, then bring her to the ER. She doesn't have any other symptoms. I hope it's just a virus that passes quickly.

    Last night we went to close on our refinancing. To make a long story short, all the papers were totally messed up. So frustrating. Then today they tell us we have to pay $350 to extend the lock on the finance rate another three days so they can fix everything. I pretty much told them they were insane if they expected us to pay $350 because they messed up! So, after about eight phone calls to various people, they are waiving the fee. UGH!!! Sorry, this has nothing to do with anything, but I just felt the need to rant! Lately, I just feel like it's one thing on top of the other for us. I just want a normal, boring life!! Nothing ever seems to go smoothly.

    OK, I'm done whining now!

    Mrs. Reber, it sounds wonderful to develop the property. Sounds like a beautiful place. That would be great if you could move and stay at home.

    I'm going to sign Caitlyn up for a swimming class. It's more to get her comfortable with the water. Now she hates it. I'm very afraid of water and I don't want her to be the same.

    Gotta go get the kids in bed.

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    Joanne, I'm so glad that the doctor seems to think there's no problem. I'm with you, though, I'd still worry about it. And those people are crazy to think you should pay an extra $350! How can they rationalize that? You didn't make the mistake! I do feel for you with all these little surprises that keep coming up. Don't worry about ranting on the BB. We're all here for support and friendship ! I hope Caitlyn is feeling better today, too.

    Have to run to a meeting in a few minutes! Work is such fun!
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    Joanne - what a relief on your appts. How's Caitlyn's fever? When I thought about Jameson a little more I recalled that couple of times in my life I've had funky eye things happen - spasmic twitching type thing. The couple of incidents were when I was in college (probably stressed, not eating sleeping well). It was freaky but nothing that seems to have any long lasting effects - hopefully Jameson's thing is also nothing. Good that it was doing it so the doctor could see it though - it always seems when stuff like that crops up that by the time you get to the doctor it doesn't happen at the office and they just shrug and say come back later.

    Cheryl - I wouldn't say Lainey's "enjoying" her swim class but it's not freaking her out as badly as I thought it could. We figured out last night that she's a lot happier if she has support under her feet. The class happens in the deep (4') end of the pool. They had a big float thing that I sat her on and she smiled and laughed and played in in the little bit of water that pooled on top of it. Another mother there told me that her daughter took the class last summer when she was about 9 months and was very tentative about the water at the beginning of class and was being dunked by the end of the 2 weeks, so I'm hopeful she get more enjoyment out of this soon. I just want Lainey to be comfortable around the water as she grows. I love swimming and think it's great exercise.

    DH thinks he saw 2 white spots on the her top gums. She doesn't like us messing with her mouth when she's teething (doesn't want to chew on our fingers etc.) so it's hard to tell for sure. It'd be kind of funny if she really were getting teeth in because she got her bottom 2 the week she started crawling.

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    Hi everyone.. Sorry I've fallen a little behind after being really busy with a bunch of stuff around here lately.

    Joanne.. How scary about Jameson! I was relieved to see your post by the time I got to the bottom of the thread that they didn't think it was anything serious. Is Caitlyn doing better today? That is too bad about the Cubs game. I'm a big Cubs fan, and I'm dying to go to a game. My brother bought Brendan a really cute Cubs outfit, and we've been thinking about taking him down there, but we'll see.

    Nori.. Thanks for the suggestion about the harness device you can buy for planes. I'll definitely look for one of those if we end up going to Arizona. I have been to Tucson a couple times before since two of my cousins live there. Sorry to hear about your friends mother. Sounds very sad!

    Becky .. What part of Montana do you go to? I have relatives there too. They live in the middle of nowhere, but the nearest town would probably be Bozeman, if I remember right. We visited them when we drove from Seattle to Chicago a couple years ago. How is your childcare search coming? Did you find anyone you feel comfortable with yet?

    MrsReber.. I have a probably stupid question, but... what is a modular home? Sounds like a nice area though, and running a restaurant would be fun wouldn't it? Everyone time I cook something I really like.. I think how that would go on my menu if I ever had my own restaurant.

    Erin.. Congratulations on buying a house. Sounds like we'll be practically neighbors! We are having a house built in Plainfield. I grew up out here, but then moved to Chicago for 6 years and was very reluctant to move back, but I really like it. I miss the city sometimes, but I don't miss living there, and it is certainly close enough to go visit when I feel the need. Glad to hear your DH's cousin is doing better!

    Kim.. What are you going to do for Lainey's birthday? How exciting about her walking now!

    Cheryl.. Glad to hear you had a nice visit with your parents. It's really hard when the good grandparents live so far away!

    MIL doesn't arrive until September 14. I'm cherishing my remaining days of sanity. Our closing date on our new house is September 22, so it definnitely doesn't look like we'll be in and settled during any portion of her trip.

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    AnnaSue, your question isn't stupid by any means. There are many different variations of the term modular home. For some companies, it could be a glorified trailer. This one company that my mom and my sister found in NC puts the house on a foundation and builds it to state codes. The rooms of the house are actually put together in their facility and then they actually move the pieces and place them on the foundation. It's not like having your house built at the site (what they'd call 'stick built'). It tends to be much less expensive. There are good things and bad things about it. There's not as much flexibility as when you build a stick built house, but the modular companies do offer many floorplans. You can usually change them around a bit, too. This company builds all the costs into the price and includes all the appliances except for the refrigerator! They are, by far, the best company I've seen yet. All in all, the quality seems to be much better than it was 15 or 20 years ago.

    I hope you enjoy every second of your freedom before MIL gets there! I can absolutely and completely sympathize with you. I always say the best thing about having an MIL living nearby is that you know she has her own place to go home to! DH mentions every so often how he wishes he could fix up the basement and let her live with us. Ha ha ha! He's too funny. I'd be packing up before she even pulled into the driveway!
    Well, you can always come here for a sympathetic ear during her visit.
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    Mrs. Reber, I certainly hope your DH is kidding!! What a nightmare that would be. Although I know you'd never let it happen! By the way, how's your shoulder?

    AnnaSue, enjoy your upcoming weeks of freedom before MIL arrives! Do you have any out of town relatives that haven't met Brendan yet? Maybe you could schedule a visit with them while she's here.

    DH said Caitlyn's fever hasn't gone back up and she's acting normal. But I did give her Motrin at 4am, so it still might go back up when it wears off. She has an appt. at 2:30 to see the doctor.

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    more questions about air travel

    I don't think this question has been asked about traveling with kids If the plane has 3 seats on both sides and you're not getting a seperate seat for your 15 month old - would it be better to be by the window or the aisle?

    We're trying to make plans for Christmas to go visit DH's parents in St. Louis. I can't believe how expensive the tickets are to go around the holiday-- even on yucky SouthWest. It's such a long flight but I'm just not sure we can swing another half price ticket.

    Kim

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    Kim, I don't think the choice of seat matters much. If you're on the aisle, you can get up and stretch if need be. However, if someone else is in the window seat, you may have to move for that person. DH and I had three seats. When Casey was asleep in the car seat, we passed Brenden back and forth. It was nice that we had all three seats to ourselves, but I understand the cost issue.

    Joanne, DH wasn't kidding about helping out MIL, but I have a few things going for me. First of all, fixing up the basement is on his never ending list of things to do. It'll never happen. Secondly, I already told him that they cannot live together. They argue if they're together for 10 minutes. It'd be miserable having her around full time. I already told him that I would take the kids and leave. I know he wants to help her, but she's an adult and she should be able to take care of herself. You don't see my mom knocking on the door or crying for me to help her out with her car. She takes care of things herself. Hence, our relationship is great. We help each other out when we can, but we do not sit around feeling sorry for ourselves if we don't get help .

    Glad to hear the Caitlyn seems okay. It's so frustrating that they can't tell us what's wrong. Brenden is still a bit clingy, but playing and acting normal. We got a memo about pink eye going around at school now. First chicken pox, then coxsackie virus, now this. Oh well.

    The shoulder still hurts. It's not too bad at work because I can sit still. Making left turns while driving and making sudden moves hurts (to put out the toaster oven fire last night or to grab the lamp that Brenden was shoving off the end table). I'm hoping it just gets better on its own. I've dislocated my shoulder enough times to know what the doctor will probably tell me. If it's not substantially better by the end of the week, I'll definitely have to make an appointment. Thanks for asking .
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    I'm agonizing over this flying thing. I'm proposing to DH that we go in January (over MLK Day week) to be able to get cheaper tickets. Either buy a seat for Lainey or have more hope at least of there being one available for her. She doesn't even sit calmly on our lap for the 20+ minute bus ride we take to and from work - hours on a plane could be really stressful! If we even hint about it we think DH's parents would offer to pay for Lainey's seat but gosh we're big kids now and that just doesn't feel right.

    Susan - I can't believe your DH is serious about your MIL! At least you don't have to worry about it really happening. AnnaSue we feel for you. Have you resolved where she's staying yet? I think having Brendan at daycare so you all can get your new house ready (and old one packed up) is important

    Susan - there's a company out here that makes fabulous modular homes. I know they're very popular and beautiful.

    Kim

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    Kim, try not to get too worried about your trip with Lainey. I know that's easy to say and I would probably be the same way. You might be better off in January, since the flight would have a better chance of being less crowded and you could have a seat for Lainey. I traveled with Colin and Ian when Colin was 18 months and Ian was 3. DH and Jameson drove to Florida and met us there. I don't remember our rationale for all that! But anyway, Ian was great on the flight. Colin did get restless but the flight attendant was great at coming by and entertaining him. If at all possible, I'd try to get a seat for her. That way she can nap. We traveled with Jameson at 10 months and that was a very long three hours. There were no extra seats so we held him the whole way. We must have gone through at least 100 cheerios. Oh, I'd probably go with the aisle seat, too. Just seems like a bit more room.

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    MrsReber.. What is it with our husbands? My DH always talks (hopefully joking) about fixing up the basement for my MIL too! No way would I ever agree to that! I'm not sure what is going to happen when she gets too old to care for herself, which I think is coming soon. The only other family member she has in England is my BIL, and he is completely irresponsible, and would never help her. I wish she would stop blowing all her money on her world travels and expensive dining and start thinking about saving some money! Of course, now when I suggest she should stay in hotel while she visits, she claims to have no money. :mad: I told DH that she can stay here, but only if she acts like a normal person. If she starts up with her usual behavior, I told him that I'm taking Brendan and staying in a hotel, and I really mean it! I'm absolutely not putting up with her this time. I suspect Brendan and I will be in a hotel by the end of day one. I won't budge about her babysitting though. I'd feel like such an irresponsible mother if I left my little baby with her! I forgot to mention that she is also a complete chain smoker, and I don't want her smoking around Brendan (especially with all his congestion problems), and I don't want her leaving him unattended while going outside to smoke 500 times a day.

    Kim.. Did you decide what to do about your trip yet? I haven't flown yet with Brendan, but I'm thinking I'll request an aisle seat when we do fly with him. He is such a fidgeter, that I think he'd go nuts cooped up by the window seat. Probably depends on the baby though.

    Joanne.. How was Caitlyn's appointment? Is she doing better today?

    I forgot to mention earlier that we are thinking of buying one of those Pack and Play things (is that what they are called?) I set Brendan down on a blanket on the floor a couple days ago while making him a bottle, and was shocked to look over a minute later, and he was gone. Turns out he has mastered the technique of pressing his heels into the floor and pushing himself backwards all over the place! He had gone about 10 feet in less than a minute. I didn't think he'd be this mobile by 3 1/2 months, so I'm thinking about buying one of those things to keep him in one place when need be. Does that sound reasonable? And does anyone have any recommendations on any particular model?

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    MrsReber, Noah would love to have Brenden as a friend! Wouldn't that be fun??? About MIL living in the same house....if it really happened, you'd probably be able to write a book about it, publish, and make $$$$. No, I guess money wouldn't be worth to threaten your sanity. Living in VA and owning a restaurant sounds like a great life! If you ever opened the restaurant, I'd want to eat there.

    Kim, I'd go with aisle side....seems like it has more room to move around. I also like the idea that you can get up whenever you want without bothering someone you don't know. But, I think it's best if you can get an extra seat for Lainey. We flew last weekend, without extra seat, and it was so hard to keep him on our lap or on the floor that long. Does she like to play with cups or papers?? If so, you can entertain her without bringing so many toys on board. Noah played with a cup (for beverage) and ice for a while. In-flight magazine kept him busy, too. As Joanne said, don't try not to be stressed out about it so much. You'll survive.

    Joanne, glad those appointments went well. What a relief! Hope Jameson's eye symptoms won't come back so he doesn't have to go to see neurologist. Extra $350 for refinancing error is ridiculous!!:mad: Good for you that you got thing settled down. Such a frustration!!!

    AnnaSue, will your MIL stay with you all the time as she planned? Did you talk to DH about it??? Hope you guys came up with some "alternative" plan for her stay. If you need to vent during that time, this is the place to be!!!!

    We've been busy with funeral luncheon's help and memorial service all day. I had to interrupt Noah's morning nap, and he only had 15 min. nap in the afternoon in the car. Memorial Service was very nice, it was a small church but there were so many people they couldn't have sit everyone, even with extra chairs. Noah did pretty well, too. Looked like pepole around him had been entertaining him. I was holding him upright, and Noah was looking back pew. I had a feeling that the guy on the back pew was making funny face at him. It kept him entertained for a while.

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    AnnaSue, you posted while I was typing mine. Your MIL is a chain smoker also!!!?? There's NO WAY you can leave Brendan with her. How can you trust she wouldn't smoke when he's around? You should ban smoking in the apartment, also. I hope you won't be end up in the hotel, but if that needs to be, that's you have to do, I guess. What a pain!! No advice on pack and play since I don't have one of those. Yes once the baby starts to move around, your whole life will change.

    BTW MrsReber...hope your shoulder will get better soon!

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    AnnaSue, the chain smoking just reinforces the idea that she should not be alone with Brendan! Will she be smoking in your house? I'd make her go outside. Especially if Brendan has congestion problems.

    Sounds like Brendan is a strong boy to be moving already! We have a pack n play that we got when we had Jameson, I think it is a Graco. Ours is just a basic one, no frills. Some of them now also double as a bassinet, but Brendan is too old for that. We've actually only used it for traveling - the kids would sleep in it as babies. This might work, too: http://www.rightstart.com/global/sto...&GroupTP=Model

    I don't know if that link worked. It's a bit long! If not, go to rightstart.com and search under gates.

    Caitlyn seems to be doing good. Her fever did come back yesterday, but this morning she was OK. The doctor said she had an ear infection so she has an antibiotic, which she hates. She's really good at clamping her mouth shut when she sees it coming. She also told us to give her pulmicort for a few days to try to prevent any wheezing from developing.

    Tomorrow we go back to close again on our refinancing. Supposedly, everything is worked out now. I certainly hope so! I'm going to look at all the figures closely to make sure they don't sneak that $350 in there!

    Nori, is Noah's party coming up soon? Caitlyn's and Colin's is next Saturday. I'm getting a little stressed about it. We have about 20 adults and 15 kids coming. Our backyard is a disaster. We just took down our pool and I've been waiting for DH to get rid of it but it's still out there in pieces along with other junk. And, I have no idea what I'm doing food-wise. And, the house needs a major cleaning. I have to work Friday and we have a party to go to that night. So, basically, I'll be doing everything Saturday before the party. I'm thinking a cleaning service and catering would be good!

    Well, better start working.

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